I can see a fiancee's mother being judgemental. But has anyone noticed a buddy's mother being judgemental. Seems like she wants to know how I graduated, why, do I know what my calling is in life. She keeps saying her son is smart. I know her son well. She tries to make simple answers to delimmas that are red herrings. She has no clue what are my family problems are. Why don't she just never mind. People at work are judgemental. But I'd expect some slack from a friend's mother.