Because all my coworkers seem to think so OK last night I went to a farewell pissup that my coworkers had organized. Two of them Alice and Bradley for some unknown reason felt the need to tell everyone that they gave their no good ex BF/GF the middle finger by cheating on them.Alice had a bastard boyfriend who treated her like shit (though the boyfriend never physical abused or cheated on her) and Bradley who had caught the girl who he was going to purpose to in bed with a another man. Now both of them decided that the best way to get back at those who had hurt them was with the use of good old infidelity. Alice with her boyfriend's younger brother, Bradley with his Girlfriend's second best friend. Now unlike everyone else who was there I was the only person who disagreed with their actions. I tried to point out that they were both hypocrites and what they did in my opinion was downright childish. But at the same time I could sorta see where the people who thought that their actions were justifiable were coming from (even if I thought they were full of crap). Were both Alice and Bradley in the right and does anyone else here believe that cheating on someone can be justified as a method of payback?