I have so many sh*t going on in my life...... please answer one or as many as you feel you can help me with! 1. My brother is getting married soon and he wants me to attend and also serve as a groomsman. The problem is I suffer from social phobia which is why i avoid going out in public or meeting new people. I always begin panicing and hyperventilation in such situations. But my family think I'm silly and always dismiss it. He wants me to go fitting for a tuxedo which I do not want to do. I don't even want to go to the wedding!!!! But I am willing to go as long as I can wear casually and leave ASAP. But he insists I get fitted for a tuxedo!!!!!! So what can I do????? I just want to go hiking on the date and get lost if you know what I mean. 2. Need some legal advice. I was involved in an accident few months ago and I obtained a lawyer on contingency basis. He insisted I see a chiropractor even though I wasn't seriously injured. so I went thinking that it was free and would only be paid if we won the case. Well, after 2 months, the bastard lawyer dropped my case!!!! And then the chiropractor sends me a bill for $2200!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so broke I can't pay this!!!!! My dentist died and the manager stole my money and I can't even get my dental work done!!!!!!!!!! Plus I would have ever gone there if the lawyer hadn't talked me in to it. The chiropractor also only treated me for 5 minutes and billed over $100 each time!!!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!! So anyways, is there any recourse I have? I mean the lawyer never told me I would be billed if he dropped the case. Plus the chiropractor overcharged me for doing absolutely nothing. I did give them my health insurance card so can't they bill them instead??? Please someone give me some good advice or steer me towards someone who gives good advice. I am sooooooooooooo depressed, crying and suicidal right now. The coolant looks really good to me right about now.