Can`t stand tuching

[DrownedGirl]

I have this weired thing going on. I hate to be tuched. I am seeing that i am getting more and more agressive to people araund me. When somebody want`s to hug me i feel dirtty and well like a pice of dirt. Anybody knows whats going on? Has anybody got this kind of problems?Help needed.

 

[Closed01]

heh...I know how that is. My personal bubble seems to have grown and I stiffen and/or flinch when someone hugs me or touches me. When they do, I immediately feel angry at that person and usually will say/do something later on that hurts them...

A friend of mine is also like that. I have yet to get a full explanation on why, but maybe we can figure it out.

 

[DrownedGirl]

Well i become really mean. Strange. Because i am infact very quiet and pecful person.

 

[Closed01]

Yeah...I mean, I'm also quiet and stuff. Most of my friends describe me as soft, quiet, etc.

But i get really, really annoyed when I get touched or hugged. I sometimes back away, or get defensive.

Hm... Can you stand certain people? Like a parent, bf/gf, best friend, sibling, etc? Or is it just everybody? And is it hugs only, or any contact whatsoever?

 

[DrownedGirl]

No nobody...and yes i can`t stand anybody tuching me anyway.I feel..well i really can`t describe how i feel..it is just disgusting.

 

[ggg456]

Yes, I'd/ and still do feel attacked if anyone I don't like touched me. I'd kick and yell at them if they found my 'get away from me' funny and kept going. It'd be like being contaminated or feeling like they've hit me. Especially if it's with family people. But people just seem to think they can touch me for some reason, maybe because I'm small..

So if I let anyone near me now, if I actively say, I want you to touch me hug me etc, they know that I like them a whole lot as I'm a very difficult person for people to get close to..

 

[Spearmint]

I hate being touched too.

 

[DrownedGirl]

Now i know i am not the only one..

 

[no point]

I also don't like being touched, especially by my parents. But I always used to be like this. I feel disgusted when my parents touch me, really hard to explain. I'm so glad I'm not the only one...

 

[DrownedGirl]

My parents didn`t really tuch me,hug me,are kiss me..

 

[DrownedGirl]

Now i have connected something.. I have this skin "allergy" It is called (latin) dermo-graphis(english translation) writing on skin.So if i Tuch my skin to hard it shows in a red swelling. My doc said it will probably go away when i have my 1.st child. Can it be triggered by my problem whit tuching?

 

[Rosenrot]

I wouldn't say it's a problem, you just don't like being touched. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

 

[DrownedGirl]

It is not like "not like tuching" it disgusts me..P.s. i know this is not in the topic..but you really have a nice nickname,like that song very much Rosenrot.

 

[Twisted Sweet Lies]

I hate people touching me especially my parents. I have no idea why. They have never done any thing bad to me or any thing like that. I will usually tolerate my friends touching me even though I don't like it. They don't touch me often though. I actually like touching animals though.

 

[appppppppple]

a few weeks ago i was sitting in my closet for some reason when my sisters came to comfort me, and when they started tickling me to cheer me up i started bawling uncontrollably

 

[Drew...ish]

I have this weired thing going on. I hate to be tuched. I am seeing that i am getting more and more agressive to people araund me. When somebody want`s to hug me i feel dirtty and well like a pice of dirt. Anybody knows whats going on? Has anybody got this kind of problems?Help needed.

yeah i am the same way, i relly hate being touched or even nudged in the hall way, i tmakes me want to dissapper.