Can`t stand tuching

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by DrownedGirl, Mar 25, 2008.

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  1. DrownedGirl

    DrownedGirl Well-Known Member

    I have this weired thing going on. I hate to be tuched. I am seeing that i am getting more and more agressive to people araund me. When somebody want`s to hug me i feel dirtty and well like a pice of dirt. Anybody knows whats going on? Has anybody got this kind of problems?Help needed.
  2. Closed01

    Closed01 Member

    heh...I know how that is. My personal bubble seems to have grown and I stiffen and/or flinch when someone hugs me or touches me. When they do, I immediately feel angry at that person and usually will say/do something later on that hurts them...

    A friend of mine is also like that. I have yet to get a full explanation on why, but maybe we can figure it out.
  3. DrownedGirl

    DrownedGirl Well-Known Member

    Well i become really mean. Strange. Because i am infact very quiet and pecful person.
  4. Closed01

    Closed01 Member

    Yeah...I mean, I'm also quiet and stuff. Most of my friends describe me as soft, quiet, etc.

    But i get really, really annoyed when I get touched or hugged. I sometimes back away, or get defensive.

    Hm... Can you stand certain people? Like a parent, bf/gf, best friend, sibling, etc? Or is it just everybody? And is it hugs only, or any contact whatsoever?
  5. DrownedGirl

    DrownedGirl Well-Known Member

    No nobody...and yes i can`t stand anybody tuching me anyway.I feel..well i really can`t describe how i is just disgusting.
  6. ggg456

    ggg456 Guest

    Yes, I'd/ and still do feel attacked if anyone I don't like touched me. I'd kick and yell at them if they found my 'get away from me' funny and kept going. It'd be like being contaminated or feeling like they've hit me. Especially if it's with family people. But people just seem to think they can touch me for some reason, maybe because I'm small..

    So if I let anyone near me now, if I actively say, I want you to touch me hug me etc, they know that I like them a whole lot as I'm a very difficult person for people to get close to..
  7. Spearmint

    Spearmint Well-Known Member

    I hate being touched too.
  8. DrownedGirl

    DrownedGirl Well-Known Member

    Now i know i am not the only one..
  9. no point

    no point Well-Known Member

    I also don't like being touched, especially by my parents. But I always used to be like this. I feel disgusted when my parents touch me, really hard to explain. I'm so glad I'm not the only one...
  10. DrownedGirl

    DrownedGirl Well-Known Member

    My parents didn`t really tuch me,hug me,are kiss me..
  11. DrownedGirl

    DrownedGirl Well-Known Member

    Now i have connected something.. I have this skin "allergy" It is called (latin) dermo-graphis(english translation) writing on skin.So if i Tuch my skin to hard it shows in a red swelling. My doc said it will probably go away when i have my child. Can it be triggered by my problem whit tuching?
  12. Rosenrot

    Rosenrot Forum Buddy

    I wouldn't say it's a problem, you just don't like being touched. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
  13. DrownedGirl

    DrownedGirl Well-Known Member

    It is not like "not like tuching" it disgusts me..P.s. i know this is not in the topic..but you really have a nice nickname,like that song very much Rosenrot.
  14. Twisted Sweet Lies

    Twisted Sweet Lies Well-Known Member

    I hate people touching me especially my parents. I have no idea why. They have never done any thing bad to me or any thing like that. I will usually tolerate my friends touching me even though I don't like it. They don't touch me often though. I actually like touching animals though.
  15. appppppppple

    appppppppple Member

    a few weeks ago i was sitting in my closet for some reason when my sisters came to comfort me, and when they started tickling me to cheer me up i started bawling uncontrollably
  16. Drew...ish

    Drew...ish Guest

    yeah i am the same way, i relly hate being touched or even nudged in the hall way, i tmakes me want to dissapper.
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