I saw this article about the 5 things people regret the most on the death beds. The 5 things was listed by a nurse who take care of patients with terminal illness. Anyways the last one day you can choose to be happy... ermmm really? I really don't know how to do that... and don't think it's possible when you have little serotonin in your head.
Here's what the article says:
5) I wish I had let myself be happier
This is a very humbling one, really.
Many of her patients didn’t realise until the end of their lives that happiness is a choice.
They wished they had known that happiness isn’t something to be chased and acquired through wealth, social acceptance and the trappings of life.
In their deathbeds, these patients realized they could have chosen to be happy, regardless of their circumstances in life – rich or poor.
To me, this regret is the most touching.
Throughout our active lives, we often focus too much on acquiring the things we would like to have – wealth, status, power and achievement. We often (wrongly) believe that these things hold the keys to our happiness.
When asked what they could have done differently, here’s the key message those dying folks shared: Learn to relax and appreciate the good things in your life. That’s the only way to find real happiness.
Happiness is a choice.
Here's what the article says:
5) I wish I had let myself be happier
This is a very humbling one, really.
Many of her patients didn’t realise until the end of their lives that happiness is a choice.
They wished they had known that happiness isn’t something to be chased and acquired through wealth, social acceptance and the trappings of life.
In their deathbeds, these patients realized they could have chosen to be happy, regardless of their circumstances in life – rich or poor.
To me, this regret is the most touching.
Throughout our active lives, we often focus too much on acquiring the things we would like to have – wealth, status, power and achievement. We often (wrongly) believe that these things hold the keys to our happiness.
When asked what they could have done differently, here’s the key message those dying folks shared: Learn to relax and appreciate the good things in your life. That’s the only way to find real happiness.
Happiness is a choice.