cant take this shit anymore

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by among the stars, May 9, 2009.

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  1. among the stars

    among the stars Well-Known Member

    just be insulted by someone in dt's chatroom....why did i even try to defend myself, it turned into one big fight....i just cant take anymore of this tonight....had a bad day now this...this person called me heather (a girl who was banned for lying etc) to me that was the ultamite insult as she had hurt me very badly, this fight went into main room of dt's chatroom, where this woman proceed to treat me like "heather" ....im just crying and hurting, i cant take this shit anymore, i cant take this life anymore
     
  2. ~Claire

    ~Claire Well-Known Member

    :hug:

    I'm not too sure what chat room you are referring to but do they not have mods like we do here?

    It's possible that this person said these things to you as she knew that would hurt you the most.

    I hope the issue gets resolved for your own peace of mind.

    What else is making you feel so low at the moment?

    Big hugs :arms: xx
     
  3. DiscoverPeaceOfMind

    DiscoverPeaceOfMind Active Member

    I feel pity for bullies. The ultimate in low self esteem. And, they dont know why they do the things they do.
    So anytime you encounter one, you are seeing low self esteem in action. That's what it looks like, that's what it sounds like.
    Fortunately, you don't do that to anyone so take pride in keeping a cut above the rest....
     
  4. among the stars

    among the stars Well-Known Member

    They have mods there but it took a long time to get this person out of chat. Its quite possible that she said this just to hurt me, i never said i was this other person and why would i.... (personal shit that i wont talk about here for all to see)

    I had a fight with my grandparents yesterday, my grandmother still treats me like i am 2, i cant move because i have no place to go and having a hard time letting go of the house (another personal reason)

    my best friend stood me up...i knew she was done with school but she never answered my calls or texts, still hasn't...its not that i am angry just a lil disappointed and hurt that she never called me to say that she didn't want to or couldn't hang out....instead of me sitting in front of her dorm for 4 hours...then coming online and letting everyone vent to me...but never letting on how badly i was hurting inside
     
  5. mike25

    mike25 Well-Known Member

    Hi, the atmosphere in chat rooms can be volatile at the best of times. If it's any consolation, the people who start insulting or provoking are usually unhappy about something in their own lives. Stand tall and refuse to stoop to their level.
    At the end of the day, people (including friends) can act strange, and sometimes we can't figure it out - they probably can't figure it out either! Maybe your friend will have a valid explanation when you next see her, and then you won't feel so hurt.
     
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  6. valkyr

    valkyr Member

    Have you tried a laxative?.
     
  7. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    :blink:
     
  8. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Meg :arms:

    We spoke the other day about that chatroom I think, I've never been to that site but I think it's time you left there. It keeps hurting you :(

    Are you feeling any better today?
     
  9. among the stars

    among the stars Well-Known Member

    i am slowly drawing away from that site, i cant take the drama/pain/shit there anymore.

    Today is mother's day but moms not here so im a lil down again, started off ok...til i woke up this morning :dry:
     
  10. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I'm glad youre staying away from the site!

    I just watched the video you dedicated to your mom,it was really beautiful!She would be very proud.
     
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