I haven't had any luck with job hunting so far and sometimes my mum gets annoyed about it, which is fair enough but I hate that stuff from the past still effects me now.
I mean she wants me to go on benefits in the meantime and I wouldn't have anything against it if it wasn't for having to meet people face-to-face. I'm already a shy person and feel uncomfortable in a lot of social situations (espesh with new people - espesh official type people that from my experience are patronizing/not easy to talk to), and because of that I worry it could trigger me to relapse in depression and of course I don't want that. In the past I've never been scared of relapse/thought of it, but I went through terrible depression a few years ago and was suicidal for a long time. Since then I've been desperate to avoid any situations I think might trigger depression because I'm terrified of it being that bad again. But I can't explain that to anyone in real life because they don't get it, and they think I'm just being silly. They didn't know how awful it was, the extent it got to, so I'm just frustrated I can't talk to anyone about that, and frustrated that I'm permanently scared because of that experience in the first place. :/
Then sometimes I feel guilty - like perhaps I'm being a coward, but when you go through something that horrible surely it's natural to be terrified of it repeating in the future. It was so bad :'( I really wish I could tell someone in real life, but I don't have any friends and my family don't get it/have never been ones to react well when I've tried discussing stuff like that in the past
I mean she wants me to go on benefits in the meantime and I wouldn't have anything against it if it wasn't for having to meet people face-to-face. I'm already a shy person and feel uncomfortable in a lot of social situations (espesh with new people - espesh official type people that from my experience are patronizing/not easy to talk to), and because of that I worry it could trigger me to relapse in depression and of course I don't want that. In the past I've never been scared of relapse/thought of it, but I went through terrible depression a few years ago and was suicidal for a long time. Since then I've been desperate to avoid any situations I think might trigger depression because I'm terrified of it being that bad again. But I can't explain that to anyone in real life because they don't get it, and they think I'm just being silly. They didn't know how awful it was, the extent it got to, so I'm just frustrated I can't talk to anyone about that, and frustrated that I'm permanently scared because of that experience in the first place. :/
Then sometimes I feel guilty - like perhaps I'm being a coward, but when you go through something that horrible surely it's natural to be terrified of it repeating in the future. It was so bad :'( I really wish I could tell someone in real life, but I don't have any friends and my family don't get it/have never been ones to react well when I've tried discussing stuff like that in the past