One of the sources of my depression is the fact that I not only have to watch my wife decline as multiple sclerosis does its damage, but also that I had to stop working to take care of her. Home healthcare workers cost so much that were I to keep working, it would only be so that I could pay the workers. Even on Disability, my wife doesn't qualify for that kind of care. But now I have injured my back and my left hip doing all of her medical assists. She's been in bed for nearly three weeks as we wait for the new medical lift to be delivered. That cost us $3,000 by the way. I may be able to recover some of that, but not without jumping through hoops.