This question is more geared towards people whom have changed their lives before, but any views are welcome. I'd rather not get into the specifics, but if anyone can tell me who has changed their lives before. Was it difficult letting go of an old life and starting again? I feel utterly frightened of this, because Im an internally emotional person. I have refused, and still refuse to close myself off to my feelings inside, which makes me become very hyper sensitive. A good friend of mine said to say to myself "fuck it", which I completely agree with. But at the sametime, I'm afraid that if I tell myself "fuck it" to my feelings, Ill forget, and become cold and calculated. It's hard enough feeling guilty for the situation I'm in, and thefailings I've created, while combating that ability to feel "all so sorry for myself". Sorry, it get's messy with feelings. I know part of it is to stick to a game plan and go for it. Have soemthing to do now, which also builds for tomorrow. I sorta have that worked out. But it's the emotional part I am unsure of. I'm worried that by saying fuck it to how I feel, in order to move onto the next step(s), I will forget or become dismissive to them in the future without thinking. It's been hard enough for me to find feelings and appricate them. It's like I can say fuck my life now, Im going for the new. But isn't it about how you do it, not jus doing it. Does anyone have any advice?