I understand that this a forum for survivors and I'm certain that there's a wealth of information among members about their experience of their loved one's departure. Would anyone care to share details about how their lost loved one might have taken the surviving family's pain into account; how that consideration may have shaped the way in which he/she chose to end his/her life? Suicidal individual are often quite lucid and deeply concerned about their family's suffering. This fact must in influence in significant ways their behaviour. I'd appreciate hearing your histories.