Sorry to rant, but shit! It is bad enough that two of my biggest triggers have moved within 5 minutes of our house (in-laws), but they have "stopped by" twice already today unannounced to watch TV and start political/vocational/child-rearing arguments with the only one home today - me. I had such a good session today with the therapist too, but now I am mostly just pissed and feel intruded upon. I just put a roast in (one they knew I was making) and got the text from my wife saying her parents want to take everyone out to dinner tonight. FIL really gets off on pushing my buttons. Holy crap as I type this I hear the coming in again - no doorbell, knocking, anything. End rant, but crap this is not good for me right now. should probably add that I am not looking for pity or sympathy, just a safe place to get these thoughts out of my head.