Have you ever felt like you're not really your own person? That you're just really a collection of actions and clothing that allow you to conform with a group of people whether they're your school friends, co-workers, extended family or something? I'm beginning to feel that way. My mom once said that I have a weak identity or willpower.........something along those lines and that I just conform to whatever group of people I'm hanging out with at a certain point of time. That may be true lol....I do feel that way. Sometimes I feel like doing things like drinking, buying things or even following the news not because its really my interest, but just what's expected of me to conform. Its not really adding to my enjoyment, but I figure doing any of these things is a lot better than just being me. After all being me won't get me friends, being me won't get me a girlfriend. I need to project myself as something I'm not to impress. People will want me around then. Is this strange? Is this right? Or what?