Has anyone here ever confronted their abuser? I'm probably not the typical person on here in this situation. I'm 26 and a male; it happened when I was 13 to 15 I believe. I can't believe it's already been 11 years. It's wrecked my life in ways, but in other ways I've been lucky. I hate to talk about it, but has anyone ever confronted their abuser, and if so, what happened? Did it help? Make things better? Worse?