This issue has been weighing a heavy burden on my mind for the past few weeks. I have had two people who have sexually abused me in my life and one of them passed away a while back and the other is still around where I live (though not the least bit involved in my life). I am moving far away in the next month if not sooner, and the thought crossed my mind as to make an encounter and tell this woman exactly what she did to me and how it impacted my life for the worse. For the moment, between in-depth therapy and medication I am in a much calmer place when it comes to the trauma and because of that my therapist (whose opinion I hold in very high esteem) advises me against it. I don’t know if I am looking for an apology, or some signs of remorse, or am trying to forgive this person because I think I am well beyond even caring about any of those things. But I feel it is my last opportunity for a confrontation, and I am on the fence on if I should go through with it or even if there is anything to gain from it. As I said, I am not really sure what it is I am looking for but, I would hate to live in regret for not saying something. I don’t mean to ask people whether I should or shouldn’t due this, since I think this is a choice I have to make on myself, but if any one ever did encounter a past abuser years later, or any other personal feedback regarding a similar situation would be greatly appreciated.