Well... just like my title said, i feel confused. I know i'm straight... i've been attracted to females in all sorts of way ever since the first grade. however, i feel insecure because when I masturbate sometimes at the peak of orgasm or right before I start thinking about having sex with another guy. and this isn't all the time. it happens every once in a while, and it leaves me feeling very insecure. all in all, i don't really think i'm gay, i just think i'm not 100% straight. i know, chances are, i'm probably predominantly heterosexual. however, i find it extremly pleasurable when I masturbate with my friends(and i mean just masturbating in each others prescense, not actually touching each other.) my explanation for this, or my theory, is that i've never had real intercourse, so masturbating with him maybe feels so good because your doing something sexual with someone else and you can't really get sexually involved with a female at my age.(I'm 13.) so... can anyone help me or give me some advice or relate to me? my mom told me that boys and girls go through the "am i gay or straight" phase and she said it definetly doesn't last forever. is she right? who should I trust???