Confused about my sexual orientation *adult content*

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by poison, Oct 31, 2006.

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  1. poison

    poison Well-Known Member

    Well... just like my title said, i feel confused. I know i'm straight... i've been attracted to females in all sorts of way ever since the first grade. however, i feel insecure because when I masturbate sometimes at the peak of orgasm or right before I start thinking about having sex with another guy. and this isn't all the time. it happens every once in a while, and it leaves me feeling very insecure. all in all, i don't really think i'm gay, i just think i'm not 100% straight. i know, chances are, i'm probably predominantly heterosexual. however, i find it extremly pleasurable when I masturbate with my friends(and i mean just masturbating in each others prescense, not actually touching each other.) my explanation for this, or my theory, is that i've never had real intercourse, so masturbating with him maybe feels so good because your doing something sexual with someone else and you can't really get sexually involved with a female at my age.(I'm 13.) so... can anyone help me or give me some advice or relate to me? my mom told me that boys and girls go through the "am i gay or straight" phase and she said it definetly doesn't last forever. is she right? who should I trust???
  2. nothing-

    nothing- Guest

    Dude. You are 13 years old. You need to give it a few years before you start worryinig about things like this.
  3. Insignificant

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    this is a tender age as are the next few years to come. you are entering a time when we all figure out who we are and to explore those posibilities are natural. either way you lean or even both for that matter shouldn't really matter though. as long as you are not causing harm to yourself or anyone else just be and do what is going to make u happy. i can't tell you if you are one way or the other or both for that matter cause honestly you are the only one who is going to know this. you'll figure it out. the exploration is just beginning. take your time no need to rush things. it will all work out.
  4. ~CazzaAngel~

    ~CazzaAngel~ Staff Alumni

    I agree, give it some time.
  5. poison

    poison Well-Known Member

    I'm not worried. i'm just wondering whether these feelings are natrual. and i'm slightly confused. I found an excellent article on what homosexuality really is and it really cleared things up for me. you might want to read it everyone.
    The link
  6. poison

    poison Well-Known Member

    Well you said exploring possibilities is natrual. I don't think theres really too big of a possibility though that I'm gay considering male on male sex doesn't really arouse me. in fact, i think its kind of gross, just being brutally honesty from my standpoint. I know there is some sort of scale that you can choose where you are all the way from straight, to bi, to homosexual, and in between. it's called the kinsey scale and I think i'm probably like a one and a half. i feel a little reassured now because that scale really makes things black and white for me, and it doesn't show any gray areas. if you want to see what I consider myself on the scale thus far(1 1/2), just search for "kinsey scale."
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