I lost someone I really cared about a few years ago now. I'm not really sure if I've gotten past it at all. Somedays I dont think about them hardly at all, then other days I think about them constantly and keep asking "why?" Is it selfish to ask why I had to be the one to lose someone I care about so much? Should I rather be asking why such a great person had their life cut so short? I'm confused, and hurt. I'd so rather be the one cut short, not him. Sorry, I just thought I'd giving posting a little ramble a shot. Appreciate it.