Hey guys. Just need an opinion on some things. You sees, my friends and coworkers have been pushing me to date or have sex with a girl already since I am already 24 and have not entered into a romantic or intimate relationship with someone yet. I grew up being taught by my parents to prepare for the future first like complete my studies, earn money for a wedding and house for my future family, etc., before I enter into a relationship. I have completed my studies but still working on the other stuff. I understand why I am being pushed to go into a relationship since I am not getting any younger and I am still single. The problem is, having not thought about going into a relationship for a long time, I don't know how to go about it. Is it weird and/or wrong to have prioritized those things first before going into a relationship? Next is somewhat related to the first problem. I'm not quite sure about my orientation. I've had some crushes on girls but I have attracted to some guys as well. The guys I am attracted to older than me and either are the nice guy archetype or gym fit kind of guy. I don't know if this makes me a bisexual or gay or whatever because somehow aside from a romantic view on the attraction, I'm getting the feeling of something else. When I was younger and even sometimes today, my older brother and I are in a rocky relationship (back in school, he asked me to act like we don't know each other, we fought a lot, he teased me a lot). Somehow, I feel like I am looking for the feeling of a proper older brother from the guys I am attracted to. The feel of hanging out with me, protecting me, and such. What do you guys think? Is it just a big brother complex type thing or a same sex romantic attraction thing? Sorry for the long post.