Confused..

Discussion in 'Rape and Abuse' started by absolution, May 31, 2010.

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  1. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    i cant seem to help but think what he did to me is my fault. i should have behaved and maybe he wouldn't have beat me or raped me :cry:
    its all my fault :blub:
    Hes right.. im worthless...
    All my fault... :cry:
    Right? *tears* im so confused
     
  2. ZombiePringle

    ZombiePringle Forum Buddy and Antiquities Friend

    :hug: its not your fault Sam. You did not deserve it.
     
  3. absolution

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    Josh, i must have...why else would he do it? he said i had to learn...:cry:
     
  4. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    my guess would be that hes fucked in the head, and hes a jerk, well something worse than a jerk...but rite now the words slipping my mind, unless i do a string of swears....its not ur fault its his for being a piece of shit
     
  5. absolution

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    coly...why cant i see that its not my fault?? :cry: he says i had to learn... :nerves:
     
  6. FBD

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    ive been raped too, i remember saying no numerous times and to this day i think that if i had done something differently it wouldnt have happened, but the truth is it doesnt matter what i did, the kind of people who do this to other people dont are about the person they are doing it to in a way that they will stop, for the most part, when the people doing this are in this kind of place, they arent thinking about the people they will hurt or the victim

    they will tell u its ur fault or you have to learn, but what are you learning? what did he tell you you had to learn? to not be a *****? cz if thats it, not wanting what happened means u already learned that. to behave? well maybe getting spanked would solve that, and a lot of kids do get spanked when they do something wrong, but never beaten or raped. the person who did this to you is responsible, not you it will never ever be your fault. i know its hard to accept, and even harder to believe but its the truth it is not your fault, it never was and it will never be
     
  7. absolution

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    that i had to learn to behave ... i jsut dotn know wat is what annymore coly :cry: im breaking...im sorry...

    :hug: people are sick
     
  8. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    to learn to behave involves being a good person, behaving in public as well as in private.


    if you are supposed to be learning how to behave, it will be taught by a role model, a role model will not hurt you in such a way

    you are not at fault, and yes it sucks, and yes it will proally never go away, i still hear his stupid voice every once and a while, and i will see him around, and it sends chills down my spine, it will never go away, but what doesnt end us will make us stronger

    so, admit its not ur fault, and know you did nothing absolutely nothing wrong, maybe you misbehaved on occasion, everyone does, but nothing, nothing at all you could have ever done wrong would merit what was done to you, and once you admit it to yourself, it will help

    it will never go away, it happened and it sucks, but its time to realize that you did nothing wrong and there are sick people in the world, and from this experience you can learn how to spot them out and maybe avoid them later in life


    it is NOT your fault and you DO NOT deserve to have this happen to you
     
  9. absolution

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    :cry: sorry hunni...im so sorry this happened to you...im so confused...i cant think
     
  10. FBD

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    take some time off, so watch a funny movie or tv show or something, relax, let your mind relax and do something u enjoy that is not self destructive
     
  11. absolution

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    scared to move...dont trust myself :cry:
     
  12. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    ur at the comp....hulu works great, family guy. southparkstudios.com, u can find something to watch to put a smile on ur face i know it :)
     
  13. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    ill try :cheekkiss:
     
  14. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    thats all i can ask
    :hug:
     
  15. absolution

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  16. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    keep it up haha love that video
     
  17. twistedwhispers

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  18. absolution

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    lol :wub: you
     
  19. absolution

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    :wub: u
     
  20. kitanai

    kitanai Well-Known Member

    at least your laughing.
     
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