I've never harmed myself physically but in the lasts months I've been thinking of it and in periods I feel strong urges to do it. Now the urges are quite strong. I'm not sure why, but I've noticed that the urges comes when something have hurt me and when I feel things are unfair and when I feel hated and judged. Is it a way to punish yourself that I've got these urges? Or is it a compensation for lack of emotional support? It's a bit confusing as I think it would be more appropriate to comfort myself than to hurt myself. But the urges are there regardless of what is rational. Anyone who can relate do this? The only reason that I haven't started hurting myself today is because I'm lazy.