I have been a member on this forum for over four years, and I have noticed that this forum is becoming less supportive. There are members insulting and/or ridiculing one another, and being sarcastic or mocking towards one another. Profanity is beginning to become widespread. During the first year of the infancy of this forum, the members on this forum were highly supportive, loving, compassionate, sensitive and beneficent toward one another. I have noticed that the forum is becoming less supportive, because I spend a considerable amount of time reading the threads and posts of this forum. It remains supportive but not as much as it had been years ago. I am actually shocked that offensive threads are still opened, and that objectionable language is generally not censored. The actions of the chat room is highly disagreeable, and the behavior of many of the "active members" of this forum is distasteful. I am really bewildered that some of these members are not placed "under moderation", or have only access to this forum, but not in the chat room of this forum. I am also perplexed that many of these "active members" are not banned. I know that if I would have engaged in some of those repugnant behaviors, I would automatically be placed "under moderation" or I would be banned from the forum or chat room. What was also shocking, is that, a while ago, some of these members were telling other members in the chat room to kill themselves. Even if they were joking, that was still not acceptable; this is supposed to be a support forum. Why would anyone even joke about telling another human being to kill himself or herself? I should not be expecting the members of this forum to be extremely supportive at all times, because no human being is perfect. I have respect for the moderators and administrators, but the lack of response from the moderators or chat moderators in the chat room of the repellent behavior of the members are disturbing. Some of the moderators just allow the bad behavior to continue without doing anything to prevent the unfavorable behavior. I am sometimes in the chat room when a moderator is or moderators are in it, hoping that the moderator or moderators will tell the members to stop the unpleasant demeanor, but my hopes are usually futile. If I ever meet someone by chance, and that person is suicidal and/or depressed, and is searching for aid to cope with his or her depression and/or suicidality , I would not recommend this forum to that person. Please, whatever one does, never attempt to deceive anyone who is a member of this forum that one is deceased, because not only is it despicable, it is morally indecent and sadistic; it has happened once on this forum of which I know, and I wish that it would never occur again. I know that being an administrator or a moderator is an exceedingly arduous task; therefore, I do not expect the behavior of the members of this forum to be impeccable.