I don't know how much sympathy I will get. In brief, I am 39 years old. I've wanted to move out of my parents house since I was 18. But my parents want me to be their employee til they die. I want to move to another city. They don't want me to get married or move out of their house. I will be 65 before I can live my own life. I wanted to be an engineer or teacher but they don't want me to. I have no pursuit of happiness or freedom.