Court Date

[Courage]

I wasn't sure where to post this. My ex boyfriend court date is October 8th. I'm pretty nervous being in the same room with him. I will be testifying. That's scary to think about. But I'm going to to do it.

 

[Brân]

Hi Angel, I dont know the full situation, but that does indeed sound scary - but also very important. I'm glad you're feeling determined. Stay strong and we're here if you need us!

 

[sinking_ship]

Understandable to be nervous. It's a brave thing to do! Do you have someone going to court with you for support?

 

[Lady Wolfshead]

Very best wishes and prayers for you! Remember to reward yourself afterwards in some way, something you don't normally do for yourself - a bouquet of flowers, a piece of chocolate cheesecake, a dinner out with friends.

 

[may71]

I hope it goes well.

I wish they would allow testimony with just the judge, lawyers, and jurors though.

 

[Shush]

I know testifying is scary, hopefully you have some support through it. If there is a victim support program in your area, talk to your worker.
There will be other people in the courtroom and your ex will not be able to approach you or talk to you at court. If he is not currently in jail, speak to someone involved in your case (victim support worker, detective, lawyer) about your fears. Maybe they can arrange to have extra support and/or security for you. At least a safe space to wait outside the courtroom when you are not testifying. And if you can, try to bring a trusted friend or family member with you for support.
Best of luck and sending you hugs.

 

[Acy]

Hi @Angel2019 - good for you for being so brave! Where I live, the accused person is behind a glass wall, so you see them, but there’s no way there is any contact. @Shush is right about seeing if you have some kind of Victim Support service. We have those here, and there is usually someone who will sit in court with the victim(s) and help them through it. Keep posting while you wait for the court date and let us know how things go.