Cousin left the world...barely knew him, but my heart is broken.

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by deferred dream, Oct 22, 2010.

  1. deferred dream

    deferred dream Well-Known Member

    I just can't stop looking at his Facebook page. Scouring it, trying to find SOME clue, SOME hint that I missed to not know he was this depressed... I only knew him for some six months but we got along wonderfully. I KNEW that I'd meet him someday, him and his daughter and his wife. But I ran out of time... He was 28 years old, he died on Tuesday. I haven't slept since.
  2. Sadeyes

    Sadeyes Staff Alumni

    So sorry to hear about your loss and please do not blame yourself...sometimes, when someone is quite troubled, their only power is in would have done more had you knew; I am sure of that...please take care of yourself and post to let us know how you are doing...big hugs, J
  3. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    i am so sorry for your loss and understand you feeling of wondering what was missed but in the end he chose not to let others into his pain his illness took him away nothing you could do but what you did and that was be a friend to him I hope you have support for you now to help you through all the sadness.
  4. jlc20m

    jlc20m Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take good care of yourself.