Creating "hope" and having expectations..worst thing in the world.

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by HomerSimpson, Apr 26, 2015.

  1. HomerSimpson

    HomerSimpson Well-Known Member

    I hope someone will understand what I am trying to say, but does anyone day dream and create expectations about something that they are planning to do, but than when the event or whatever happens, what you wished and hoped for and all the scenarios that you day dreamed about never actually happens. Than you are even more depressed than where you started from.
  2. ScarlettHurts1990

    ScarlettHurts1990 Active Member

    I think I kind of know what you mean. I fell for a girl I worked with and she flirted with me a lot but when I finally told her how I felt, she said she didn't want to mix personal and business. It crushed me because I stupidly let myself daydream about her- I even wrote poetry about her! I have learned a valuable lesson in the fact that you should NEVER count your chickens before they hatch :)