Death Wish

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Tudor, Sep 14, 2011.

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  1. Tudor

    Tudor New Member

    Hello guys,

    I just found this website and decided to write couple of things. I don't know if I'll commit suicide by the next sunset, but one could die just by accident.

    Here's an interesting thing for you: I do not feel suicidal, but rather, I'm living suicidal. 3 days ago I did rock climbing without gear; I drove my car through a crossroad while the red light was on. Bottom of the line, I started to live without rules and worries. And I just don't care about death anymore. Everyone dies, one way or another. Death is a very private event. Could be beautiful albeit the pain... i just wasn't this kind of person. If you get what I mean: I have grown a death-wish.

    A lot of things are wrong in my life. Many things. I used to rant a lot, cry a lot, curse the God and whatever that is. It didnt help to remove immediate pain. Usually my unconscious mind resolved the issues. However, temporarily. Pain builds up later again, cos we humans are social animals living in an extremely dysfunctional society. Now, I simply feel lost. And out of that feeling, a certain kind of death-wish recently emerged. After all, the people that care about me - my parents, that is - live in the other continent. If I die now, they wouldn't know it for a very good while.

    I am just looking for a restart button. Wish it was like a game. Life, that is. The age is wrong, hence the people are wrong. Could have been easier if a World War sparks off. Then we get to see blacks and whites. At the minute, things are all grey, blurry. Hard to perceive. Suffocating.

    I shall continue with my improvisational take of daily life. I feel that the closer I am to death, the more I feel alive. And living for death has become my purpose. Maybe death finds me tomorrow, maybe not.

    So, rather than an ancient noble suicide, like <mod edit: *sparkle*: methods>, i just look for the death. Don't know if any of you felt this. I just look for death, because it is private. It might matter. It might understand you. It might love you. Death is you. Then what is life? So far it didn't make any sense to me. It's just too random and painful with all those desires and such, go high up, then fall swiftly. Downs are too much as opposed to ups. There doesn't seem to be any balance in this life. It's just stupid.

    Maybe death has the answers. Wish I could meet someone who had seen the other side of eden.
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  2. StevenSiew

    StevenSiew Well-Known Member


    I'm sorry to disappoint you. But there is no restart. If you got a shitty hand in life then you are stuck with what life had deal you until you die. Life is NOT a video game, you only live once but you can certainly die twice.

    Once when your dream dies.
    And once when your body dies.

    If as you said, you have no fear of death and choose to live life dangerously then you will be surprise one day when you either die or hurt yourself badly. Not to say that this is not what you intend for yourself but at least write a poem before anything bad happens to you so that we may have something to remember you by.

    Least you be a "ghost" that no one remembers.

    Steven Siew
  3. *sparkle*

    *sparkle* Staff Alumni

    completely and totally disagree with steven. yea some of us are dealt a bad hand in life sometimes. thats not to say it can't and won't change. i know many people for whom exactly that happened.

    you say lots of things are wrong with your life... can you break these things down into individual elements? sort through things one at a time?
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