People on this site keep saying things like, "I'm a loser" and insist that they will always be losers. Well, when people deign to label themselves as such (whether they are just using a word that has been applied to them or whether that is a self-imposed perception), aren't they essentially feeding into the whole system of classifying people into a single word or idea? In other words, when someone define you as a "loser", you define them as an "asshole" and the cycle perpetuates. So my question is this: What defines someone as being a "loser" and what defines someone as a "winner"? And of course, what makes the "losers" any different from the "winners" when they are just as guilty as labelling people themselves based solely upon what they see of that person?