seems like there have been some very mixed experiences on here
and im sorry for the ones that didnt work out.
i used to go into chat a lot and ive seen 3-4 relationships in the short time ive been on there and one was a short dating thing i had. while 3 of them failed, i think it was due to distance, unrealisitc expectations and simply not knowing the person well enough.
the one that has survived has been one where they were friends for 3 or so years beforehand and seem to know eachother quite well.
they say its probably wise not to date on a site like this...given so many people have issues that leads to a certain level of unpredictability. although, im tempted to believe it also means theres a greater level of understanding.
truth is, distance relationships can work and i hope they work wonderfully for all you
but even if they dont, theres a lot of wonderfully supportive people out in the real world too, if you sift through the bad ones...
so yes i wish you all the best