This isn't physical image, but I wasn't sure where this thread belonged.
Do you ever feel there's a You that you know, but it's not the you that presents? I feel like I'm smart enough, fairly funny, kind, warm and engaging, but then I plop into a room full of people and Idk what to look at, my words come out backwards, I say stupid shit, my jokes all flop, I panic and can't think and look like a fucking moron and I make insensitive comments cuz my mouth is moving faster than my mind. How can I be both these people and why is this bumbling social pariah the dominant, presenting form and why can't I seem to control myself?
I'd be willing to bet I'm not the only one who feels this way. Is there anything we can do to mindfully be who we mean to be??
Do you ever feel there's a You that you know, but it's not the you that presents? I feel like I'm smart enough, fairly funny, kind, warm and engaging, but then I plop into a room full of people and Idk what to look at, my words come out backwards, I say stupid shit, my jokes all flop, I panic and can't think and look like a fucking moron and I make insensitive comments cuz my mouth is moving faster than my mind. How can I be both these people and why is this bumbling social pariah the dominant, presenting form and why can't I seem to control myself?
I'd be willing to bet I'm not the only one who feels this way. Is there anything we can do to mindfully be who we mean to be??
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