I don't know what to do, how to feel. I've been in an online relationship with a lad for a couple of months. He's planning on killing himself soon. I'm pro choice, I respect his decision but I can't help feeling like I should be doing more to help him. I've suggested therapy to him, or going to see a doctor...but he says he did that once after an attempt and it made him feel humiliated and a hundred times worse. He's in a lot of emotional pain and sees no hope for his future. He's not bluffing, I know he's serious. Should I be doing more, trying to persuade him to get help, is that what he secretly wants? Or should I just accept it, make it less stressful, painful for him...? That sort of seems like giving up in a way. What is the best, most supportive thing I can do?