In the past I have been quite aggressive to those who get on my nerves or behave in such ways that make me angry but recently I have turned to passive aggression due to my changes in personality (it's constantly changing). I find it's a good way to get my point across and hint things without being directly aggressive. I know it makes me harder to read as a person but I feel calmer when doing it. What do you think is more suitable? Direct aggression or passive aggression?