I've been put on Pamelor and Abilify for Depression. I'm not sure it works. It makes me tired and dizzy and I guess.. numb. I have yet to find any usefulness and find it hard to figure out my feeling with my bf who I've dated for over 7 years. It seems I'm not happy until I get other guys to notice me. I've never cheated on him but I'm afraid I will due to the rush it gives me. To make me feel good about myself. I've started to write down things I can acomplish everyday to make the unemployment not bother me as much. It worked for a while and I run out of ideas. I'm also seeing a therapist. I'm not sure how much it's working though. Have your anti-depressant helped you? It's been 3 months. Does it sometimes take longer?