Do you believe in soul mates?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by darkplace, Aug 4, 2008.

  1. darkplace

    darkplace Well-Known Member

    i used to. i dont know what i believe anymore. i think that we can be happy with many different ppl in life. but do you guys think there is one we are meant to be with?
    meh. i suppose i belive in love. someday someone might see me differently, and not as just another random person passing by. Guess im just feeling extra lonley right now. Ive got a full week of partys and going out and the like but to share it with someone or have somone to cuddle at night. those are the things that kill me right now. i guess we all want and need to be loved in the end. or maybe really we are all alone.
  2. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I believe in soul mates :)
  3. odnox

    odnox Well-Known Member

    I don't believe there is just one person who would be a great mate for me. I've had several long term relationships and each of them were exactly what I needed at those points in time. They were each the perfect girl for me.

    I believe I'll eventually find the right girl(s) for me again, in this town, and I believe that if I moved to another town, I'd find one or more there too.
  4. plates

    plates Well-Known Member

    i definitely think i have a spirit...

    and i think there are people i get along with and can connect with very easily and i can feel there's this warmth/understanding there that i treasure a lot- my girlfriend is one of those people.

    if you are talking about someone that you have this really horrible/beautiful connection with- if this ever happens to you, you will know.

    as for meant to be with, do you mean like predestined? like it was all planned out in the beginning? i don't know. i don't like to think that things are set in stone. i don't know...

    to be honest, i don't know what has happened to me over the past year but i've met someone that has definitely changed my life for the better and made me grow and made me realise a lot about myself and him, (although he is hiding and nervous and scared at the moment) that i didn't know...
  5. XXXXX

    XXXXX Antiquities Friend


    I don't beleive that their is one "special person" for everyone. Some may have more than one. and some less. I figure looking increases yer chances.

    But "soul mates". Yeah, yer know what that is when yer get it. If lucky at a time in yer life to appreciate it for what it is.........
  6. Rachael41

    Rachael41 Well-Known Member

    I think i do..
    I believe tht out ther, ther is some1 for everyone...and its just a mattter of finding them :)

    but i also believe that whats for us wont go by us... if we'r meant to meet that special someone then we will..if not then its jst not meant 2 b :)
  7. liveinhope

    liveinhope Well-Known Member

    i most definately do
  8. Anju

    Anju Well-Known Member

    I'd like to think there is someone out there who I can call my soul mate and that everyone will find that little ray of sunshine someday.

    In fact, I hope to have already met them...I'm just not sure:unsure:
  9. I do believe in soulmates. I believe I have found mine already. We've been together for 9 years and we've had a real attachement to each other. Its just like we were made for each other. We do call each other soulmates too. :wub:
  10. LostMyMind

    LostMyMind Well-Known Member

    I'm happy for you BrokenTears :smile:
    I believe in soul mates.
  11. MaNg0s

    MaNg0s Well-Known Member

    I used to. I believe there is more then just one person out there for all of us. Love is a word that is overused now days and it seems that when there is any sort of connection in any relationship people tend to rush in and declare their "love". Love is something to me that used to have meaning but now its just an overused term that has lost meaning.
  12. Cynic

    Cynic Member

    No, not anymore. I used to really believe in them though. Since my past relationships and a 5 year marriage went sour and my heart has been repeatedly broken, I no longer think there is such a thing. I am very cynical about love and such things now.
  13. The_8th_Wonder

    The_8th_Wonder senior Member

    No, I don't even believe in love. I think of it as another way the world can taunt me.
  14. Sa Palomera

    Sa Palomera Well-Known Member

    I do believe in soulmates I think. But not in just one. I think you come across more people throughout your life.

    Hmm come to think of it I'm not sure if "soulmates" is what I believe in. It's more.. partners that really really love each other which I believe in. "Partners in life" or something. Soulmates sounds too... dunno just too surreal I guess.
  15. DrowningInTears

    DrowningInTears Well-Known Member

    I believe in soulmates, people made just for eachother. Ive never had a relationship or even a date. However I believe some people like myself are made without one. I'm just meant to be in solitude.
  16. Ziggy

    Ziggy Antiquitie's Friend

    I believe in soul mates. But I also believe the kindest thing I can say to people is "Goodbye".

    (It's like a bird is in a cage, you open the cage and release the bird. A cat then kills the bird, but who's to blame?)
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  17. Lethal Photography

    Lethal Photography Well-Known Member

    My parents met when they were nine years old, dated in high school, broke up at the end of high school, and got back in touch seven years later and got married. They've been married for 24 years and are still very much in love. When I look at them, I believe in soul mates.

    Everyone I have dated has lied to me from the beginning and turned out to be using me. When I fall in love with people who are already my friends, if they find out I love them, they no longer return my calls or text messages, or, if they do, conversation is very stilted and awkward. So no, I don't believe in soul mates.
  18. DrowningInTears

    DrowningInTears Well-Known Member

    Your parents sound like a wonderful relationship. I know a friend who knew his fiancee in highschool. it is beautiful to see these soulmates. but i think perhaps soulmates is a phenomenon that only occurs in some people. a few people have one, but allot dont. all this divorce and cheating and break ups in our society makes it feel that soulmates is a rare phenomenon. It would be awsome to have one but I think I surly dont. knowing them from a young age is perhaps a key factor. and i have never been close to any romantic partner - never having had a date and all.
  19. Random

    Random Well-Known Member

    Yes. I do.

    I've never met anyone who was just perfect for me but I believe it is possible. Six billion people. It just has to be.
  20. Hazibell

    Hazibell Well-Known Member

    Yes I believe :(