Seeing as I've never had a real relationship, I want to ask, do you need money to be more attractive to girls in general? I don't have much money and I'm 19 living in a country where I can't work. I have a small amount of money which I'm living on which I worked hard for. But the one thing I want is a secure job while also learning Chinese to pay for it in university. But I'm not allowed to work here unless I get a hold of a company who will sponsor me to work for them. But seeing as I live in a country where everyone speaks Chinese and English teaching jobs aren't secure if you don't have a degree, I have a problem. So do girls generally like people who are secure, or can you just be a really nice and funny person and they'll still like you, even though you aren't secure in terms of money? Thanks.