To ask such a question (in particular – where the vast majority are affected by depression) with THREE question marks, does not in the *least* imply sincerity, good will, let alone ‘genuinely insatiable and wholesome curiosity’. Especially when the OP has simply “left the building” after asking it. Instead, it appears rhetorical and full of disdain – and as well, since “narcissism” connotes something entirely negative, the question itself conveys seeming exasperation with the many affected by depression (which btw – is a diagnosed and diagnosable affliction). So, no – it is not helpful or supportive – which IS what this site is about. And with just a bit of good judgement and foresight, they could well have anticipated that it would be seen as inflammatory. Furthermore, *if* they were indeed sincere, they could have posted it in “Uncertainty” or The Soap Box. But instead, placed it in a section that is for the general diversion and relaxation of the members here. And I think an apology is in order, to said majority of the members…
For your information, I asked the question and then "left the building" because I had no real opinion on the subject. It occurred to me that a link was possible and I was asking an honest question to glean either personal opinions or actual knowledge from anyone familiar with the subject.
Yes this site is about support, but God forbid any of us here gain a little bit of personal or psychological insight while we're here right? It should be all :hug: and :tongue: and "take care hun" or "hang in there" or "PM me if you need to talk"(which very few shy, depressive people will ever do).
The fact is that psychologists have established a link between depression and narcissism (Psychology Today), stating that a narcissist can become depressed when "Narcissistic Supply" runs out, causing them to be despondent and to attempt to create more of that supply by acting out in order to manipulate others into replenishing it.
This is not to say that all depressed people are narcissists, as I am sure anyone with half a brain has surmised by now, only that SOME depressed people may indeed be narcissists (certainly not on this site though I'm sure).