Do you want kids??

Discussion in 'The Coffee House' started by mixedemotions, Jan 14, 2009.


Do you wants kids?

  1. Yes

    28 vote(s)
  2. Yes, I already have children

    10 vote(s)
  3. No

    25 vote(s)
  4. No, I cant have them

    4 vote(s)
  5. Yes I want kids but cant have them

    5 vote(s)
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  1. mixedemotions

    mixedemotions Forum Buddy

    So do you want to have any "little Buddles of joy"?

    How many do you want to have and want woul you call them??

    I'll start, Yes I want kids and if i could i'd have one right now lol

    I think atleast 2, but i'd prefer 3 so then then could play together.

    I'm unsure on names, but for a girl i really like, Ruby, Louise and Nina
    for a boy I like, Ben, Luke and Marcus
  2. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Yeah [but I don't expect to]

    Lots of kids would be nice, but I'm terrible with names.
  3. Locket

    Locket Well-Known Member

    yeh i'd really like kids in the future

    i want quite a few and i have quite a few names i like but my favourite are
    Isaac, Oliver, Isabel, Megan and Nathan
  4. Alexpt2

    Alexpt2 Well-Known Member

    No way jose!

    I'd rather put the ciggarette I'm currently smoking out in my eyeball than be stuck with one of those "little Bundles of joy"
  5. Puppy

    Puppy Well-Known Member

    I really don't know if I want children. At the moment the thoughts of it just scares me.
    But then again, I might feel differently in years to come.
  6. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    not in the slightest.

    i could not burden them i dont think. i could not deal with the responcibility at all. done it once. never again
    hard enough looking after myself.
  7. ACRon

    ACRon Well-Known Member

    No, im the middle boy between two sisters, do the math:rolleyes:
  8. LostSpirit

    LostSpirit Well-Known Member

    I have one lil girl already, but i would like 1 more,

    for a girl i like the names

    Faith, Paige, Ruby, Olivia, Ava, Ella

    for a boy i like the names

    Caiden, Jayden, Liam, Kieron
  9. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Well I want to become a member of the Church of Euthanasia, and there one rule is that you cannot procreate. So nope :)
  10. Panos

    Panos Well-Known Member

    i would love to have kids.
    My little giants discovering the world
    and me their assistant sharing and advising them for what is best for them.

    But no. i don't want to have kids.
    This world is far too cruel and mean against itself.
    Its like humanity "eats" her own children :/
    Now that's a reason for a laugh.
  11. ACRon

    ACRon Well-Known Member

    im amazed by this topic, personally, well as said, i dont want kids, the parent / child relationship was lost on me since i just dont get it, its just a feeling, that didnt come naturally to me, i had to really push for it, i dont get it, so my instincts tell me id be an awful parent. and id definately be a terrible husband
  12. plates

    plates Well-Known Member

    absolutely no way . looking after myself is hard enough. i got angry when my sister was talking about having children like having a child is like getting a fucking kitten. kittens are independent, they are okay on their own. so is a cat. suppose each cat is different though, could be a disabled cat etc..but a child is something completely else. if i was ever gonna have a child (and no it's not ever ever going to happen) i'd give that child 100%, and seeing as i know children need a lot as i'm learning about myself...i don't know why people have children without worrying about what's going on in their heads...and especially if they are working....

    i can remember growing up watching my mother work herself to death and think, yeah where's this 'love' i'm supposed to be getting from you. you're not here. you're a zombie. and she agrees. she was a zombie. all you're doing is working your mind/soul off/work 12 hour shifts 5 days a week to pay the mortgage and support your husband who does fa but go to parties drag me to them and lie around and watch television and batter/emotionally torture us.
  13. Rosenrot

    Rosenrot Forum Buddy

    Kids... one of the things I want least in the world.

    I hate children.
  14. ~Tosh~

    ~Tosh~ Forum Buddy

    i have 1 already, a lil girl, but i want more
  15. purplefizz

    purplefizz Senior Member

    No. Too much responsibility, and far too expensive. The world is already overpopulated. And no thank you to child birth!
  16. Aaron

    Aaron Well-Known Member

    I agree!...I have four!
  17. kayla19

    kayla19 Well-Known Member

    yeah, eventually.

    girls names: lucy, grace
    boys names: ryan, ethan
  18. Panos

    Panos Well-Known Member

    LOL! :eek:hmy:
  19. Aeterna

    Aeterna Account Closed

    I'd love to have kids, preferably two (Two girls, or a girl and a boy. I don't want to raise two guys. That'd suck, because I'd teach them all the bad things I did as a kid.)

    For girls: Danielle, Michelle, Robyn, Amber, Amberlynn, Amy, Amanda, Chelsea, Brooke, Courtney.
    For boys: Michael, Jason, Sven, Bay, Erin, Jay, Mark, Reed, Ryan, Garrison.

    I've given this a lot of thought.
  20. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I love children, but I think I would be an awful no.
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