My ex husband committed suicide last august, leaving behind our 16 year old daughter, and 13 year old son. It's been nine months since his suicide and I thought it was getting easier to cope, for my daughter especially. They all shared birthdays really close together in May, and she's just been a crying wreck. It hurts me see her this way. She asked me today if she and her brother wasn't good enough reason for him to want to live. I don't know how to answer that. Know one knows why he did it.