grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr just SHUT UP, PLEASE?! no offence and i know that you need a shoulder to lean on at the moment, but does it *really* have to be me? sorry if i sound bitchy... i really dont mean to and i dont mean to hurt you but please, could you please choose someone other than your own daughter?