There's a couple different sayings that go something like "being angry is like swallowing poison and hoping the other person will die" or something in that realm. No.. it's not verbatim. Bitterness is a dark abyss.
Do you agree with this sentiment?
Do you agree you should let go of your anger for your own health and well-being? Do you agree bitterness is like a deep, dark void that is hard to climb out of?
There are two inner battles in my head... anger is necessary. People need to stop labeling anger as a wrong, bad and shameful emotion. We are allowed to be angry. We are especially allowed to be justifiably angry. I think it becomes unuseful at the point when you don't process that anger. When the anger doesn't progress into anything but irrational rage. But do I think we need to feel this emotion? Absolutely.
And when anger turns into bitterness, I do think it is like swallowing poison. When you are at the point that everything irritates you, and every little incident feeds your hate and contempt about society, or whatever you choose to be angry about. And because of this you feel no joy or beauty or love. That is hurting you.
My conflicting thought says our anger turns to bitterness because we never get closure, we never get justice, and we never get to act on our rage. For example, if someone wrongs you, do you tell them off? In many cases, I haven't and then I've just suffered. So maybe it's just repressed anger that's turning to bitterness.
Any thoughts?
Do you agree with this sentiment?
Do you agree you should let go of your anger for your own health and well-being? Do you agree bitterness is like a deep, dark void that is hard to climb out of?
There are two inner battles in my head... anger is necessary. People need to stop labeling anger as a wrong, bad and shameful emotion. We are allowed to be angry. We are especially allowed to be justifiably angry. I think it becomes unuseful at the point when you don't process that anger. When the anger doesn't progress into anything but irrational rage. But do I think we need to feel this emotion? Absolutely.
And when anger turns into bitterness, I do think it is like swallowing poison. When you are at the point that everything irritates you, and every little incident feeds your hate and contempt about society, or whatever you choose to be angry about. And because of this you feel no joy or beauty or love. That is hurting you.
My conflicting thought says our anger turns to bitterness because we never get closure, we never get justice, and we never get to act on our rage. For example, if someone wrongs you, do you tell them off? In many cases, I haven't and then I've just suffered. So maybe it's just repressed anger that's turning to bitterness.
Any thoughts?