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@dugga (Sorry this turned out so long). Your account is kinda alternate-universey to me. I'm not saying you're lying; there's just a weird disconnect here. I'm not a professional, but I had the treatment and I was inpatient at the facility with other ECT patients for a total of 3 months and no one ever had the kind of reaction you describe. Short term memory loss, sure, but no one lost their identity. That would be terrifying. That disclaimer to me sounds like a manufacturer cya in case someone has a preexisting condition that clashes with treatment and sues.
Tbh one of the reasons I trust ECT is that the doctor who pulled strings so I could get ECT was perhaps the only doctor (out of 11) who cared. He was an extremely intelligent and qualified individual, (like above average for doctors; he could have been way more financially successful in other fields). I don't want to give potentially identifying information but his diplomas are up in his office and the dude's undergrad degree was impressive to people who consider Ivies a joke, and then he went to a top 20 med school. I only knew him because I was a part of his research study. But the guy found me a therapist, communicated with my father across country, decided I wasn't getting enough help under the study guidelines so took me out of the study, and on pro bono with a new set of drugs. He also gave me his phone number and asked me to call if there was trouble and I agreed. After I oded I called him bc I'm a ridiculous human being and can't help but take promises like...knights templar seriously. There was no one else I was willing to call. He took me to the hospital and was thoughtful enough to get me the form to sign for voluntary admission to the psych ward so it wouldn't be on my legal record before I blacked out. He visited me in the ICU a few days later. He saved my life. He checked in on me during later hospitalizations--like hour long conversations checked in. Between all the moving parts he put in like 100 unpaid hours for me in a few months.
So tl;dr this guy cared. And it wasn't just like, 'we need to keep her heart beating' kind of cared; he said plenty that indicated that he believed in my potential as an individual (he had spoken to me a lot). He was very qualified, intelligent, and invested in the field of psychiatry--he was a research physician. And he got me into ECT. I haven't been on *that* many drugs. If ECT was likely to destroy my cognitive function/identity there are a million things they could have prescribed (probably literally) that would have used fewer hospital resources and involved less effort. So from my point of view, I trust him, as a professional, ofc, but also as a human being (which is like...huge for me lol) so I trust ECT as a treatment.
A lot of new technologies are coming out, some may be more effective than ECT; time will tell. But I have no idea what's happening at your hospital. It is just so alien to my experience. Never did we think ECT was unsafe in the unit. My experience with drugs on the other hand, sucked. No sleep meds worked for me--trazedone and vistaril were as effective as tic tacs, ambien kinda helped but it made me sleepwalk and move stuff around the apt so I scared the shit out of my roommates and could never find anything. ECT fixed my insomnia. And zyprexa is like the devil incarnate in a pill; an average of 10 lbs of weight gain a month, your metabolism fucked for up to 2 years after, and gives you the personality of a disgruntled koala? ECT fixed my psychosis. My chemical issues were resolved by ECT and it led to the discovery of other issues, thereby moving me forward even if I'm still unstable.
I get the feeling that our extremely different personal experiences will likely prevent us reaching an agreement here. But this is where I'm coming from. I would never defend a treatment that I believed to be dangerous, and I would never believe something that was not based on significant evidence. I think ECT is an effective and safe treatment.