Has anyone been in one and left the person? how have you coped when you miss that person? What do you do to distract yourself? I've tried the friend thing, but my friends arent always around, and i cant tell them how im feeling as they dont understand and get angry. I think its the comfort and sligh security i felt when i was around him, nothing more really, poss his stupidness sometimes.. but not mainly. I feel very weak becaue of all this. And i dont want to go back to him, i dont want another relationship with him, but i miss him all at the same time Advice?