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I come here and go into the chat room and there are people there, but I guess that they don't want to talk to me. I don't understand why I am so offensive. I don't mean to be. I don't mean to hurt anyone. I feel so alone ,and I try to come to talk about things but it seems like there is never anyone there. Why am I so alone? What is it that I do to make people hate me? I wish that I could be the perfect friend the perfect person...there for everyone. It seems like I am ok and needed when I can help others, but when I need someone...everyone runs. Why is that? I guess it is just people's "nice" way of telling me to go F myself. Jump off a bridge, OD, kill yourself...we don't care. It hurts my feelings to thinkthat I may have ever done this to anyone. I try to be there and to be a friend to ALL in need. Sorry for bothering you. I know that everyone here has their own problems to deal with...I am sorry for adding mine.
Oh hun. I'm sorry that you think people don't want to talk to you :hug: Chat just goes quiet sometimes...I'm just about to go in now, I've been working on something for uni, otherwise I would have talked to you... :hug:
Nobody can be perfect hun, don't think that what happened is a result of you not being 'the perfect friend'...
I'm sure no one wants you to kill yourself :hug: I'm sorry that you feel your problems are being ignored here...
I hope you are ok :hug: I'll be in chat soon and free to talk if you still want to :hug:



I am so sorry that you feel like that, but it is something I can really relate to.

Sometimes chat does go quiet, or there are connection problems, things like that, that can cause people to feel alone and ignored and isolated.

Like Moonstar says, no one is perfect, and no one can be perfect, infact friends take faults and all.

People are not telling you to kill yourself. You are an important person, and worth a lot. It sounds like you need to try and build your self esteem. Maybe you could make a book of all the ncie things people say to you, so everytime someone says soemthing nice, you write it down, and then when you are feeling bad and isolated, you can read the book.

I dont have much to add, but if you want my msn addy just PM me, I am more than happy to talk to you on msn if you want someone to talk to.

Take care


The biggest loser ever to live.
Dink, I'm in your position too, I also feel ignored here on chat especially sometimes. I need to work on my self esteem as well, I basically have none and feel so inferior and useless. :sad:
Sorry To hear your feeling ignored... I know what thats like,
I'm Trying to get on here as soon as I can, but I've been keeping myself super busy...I haven't been to the chat... But I'll make some time For others such as yourself if I Can...


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Ya theres always the timezone thing as well. Im in Australia, and the rest of the world sleeps while where awake...I hate my timezone. Still I might check out the chat room..and if anyone is around Ill say hello.
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