Ex-BF wants to make amends

Discussion in 'Rape and Abuse' started by canucklady, Apr 24, 2010.

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  1. canucklady

    canucklady Active Member

    K, my ex had his sister contact me because he wants to make amends.

    My ex abused me in every way you can think of. Even hearing his name scares me.

    But am thinking maybe thsi will help my recovery. Been struggling with PTSD for so long, maybe this is closure that is needed.

    Anyone meet their abusers and did it turn out well?
  2. shamps

    shamps Well-Known Member

    Ive been hit before in a relationship years ago but im very sorry that I think there are better people on this site to advise you on matters of ptsd.I just wanted to offer hugs x
  3. Remedy

    Remedy Chat & Forum Buddy

    Recently I went to see the place I was 'abused' and it helped, I intend to go back in see him in person in the future for complete closure.
    I think whether it would help or not really depends on the person. If you feel it will I'd go for it. :hug:
  4. Fox in the Woods

    Fox in the Woods Active Member

    I think if I ever saw my ex (who also raped me) I would claw his face off. Not that it would help the situation. I still feel very raw from what happened to me. I guess it depends on how you feel about it and also what you expect from meeting him and what you call closure. It will depend on a number of factors.

    How do you feel about the prospect of seeing him again?

    Good luck with it all.
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