I'm still in communication with my ex. I'm unable to just forget the pain she caused but because I loved her I'm easily willing to let it pass. This forgiveness easily stems back to the fact that if I didn't forgive anybody I'd have nobody on Earth that I'd like. I'm glad I don't date her no more she was quite obsessively crazy at times and threw everything back at my face. She's the only person I've spoken about my family with. I just wish I could forget she ever existed but I can't. My girlfriend is the sweetest person ever and I have a slight problem they work not far from each other and this will be quite an issue should I bump into the former which my current and very loveable girlfriend. Like you may know I can't forget and move on no matter how hard I try.