My ex decided to try and talk to me last night. I let him talk to me because he's been having a lot of trouble being depressed/suicidal, and I really want him to be ok. He asked a lot of unfair questions (like why I never appologized for the end of our relationship, whether I enjoyed causing him pain) which I told him were unfair and wasn't going to answer. And then he said "well what am I supposed to think when (current bf) tells me that you wanted to break up with me months before you did?" The two of them are sorta friends, and I've known that they talk, so thats no surprise. My ex doesn't actually know I'm with my new bf, he thinks were just really close friends, as thats what we've been for a few years. I asked my ex what he'd been told, and told me he wouldn't tell me, because either I wanted ammunition again my new bf, or it shouldn't matter, and basically told me that the only reason it'd matter would be if I were incapable of forgiveness (he plays that card regularly - nothing new there). To make a long story short, I told me ex that I'm tired of him playing games, that I've told him before that I don't want to talk about the relationship and I don't want to have emotional conversations with him anymore because he doesn't play fair, and that he has repeatedly ignored my issues on that. And that I was done talking to him. I blocked him on everything but my cell - I figure its better to leave 1 avenue open so he doesn't show up at my apartment because its the only way to talk to me. So, I talked to my new bf. He came over and spent a few hours with me. He says he told my ex I decided I wanted to dump him a few days before I actually dumped him, and that my ex is exaggerating, trying to see what he can get me to admit to. I don't even know when I decided I wanted to break up with him, I just can't remember. And he said that I shouldn't worry about my ex, as he's fine unless he's talking to me, at which point he claims the world is falling apart for him. Aka its another way my ex is screwing with me. Wouldn't surprise me in the slightest, as he kinda did similar things while we were together. He'd make problems to get my attention. I asked my new bf if there's anything I should know, and he said no, he's told me everything he thinks applies. I'm just numb right now. My ex is a jerk, purposefully trying to hurt me and cause problems in my life (although I'm pretty sure he doesn't realize what he's doing, which is sad). My current bf, I now have doubts about trusting. I feel completely alone, and totally numb. Whats the point in even trying to be close to people when they just end up taking advantage of you anyhow? Sorry for the long post guys, I'm a mess this morning. Thanks for reading.