Here is a prime example of how I get ignored by everyone I know in my life. (The problem that’s been going on for 20 years) If it's not too long or burdensome, here is the email sent back to me from the person from the support group that I was going to-the person who dumped me immediately when I told her the news that my aunt had cancer. After six months of hanging out, notice she forgets my name. My name is not even Janice, and she writes: "Janice?" Janice? If I seem aloof it was because i don't want to hurt peoples feelings. Forget my own feelings, and try and make people like me. anyway i'm glad you wrote, and i'm not always going to do what you would like to happen. My higher power is trying to teach me that lesson, because i want my way, and want it done now. My problems are troublesome too, and I can't change my family, so I don't think i could help you with yours.