If possible I would greatly like a male's point of view on these questions I have. I'm sure you males have come to a point to meeting a male Jerk in your life. We women all have met a lot of them. My friend included has just met one recently. I just want to know how a guy becomes a jerk exactly? Is it the hardship in life that he's had where bullies have put him down? Is it the positives in life that were greater than the negatives that made him think himself this way? I looked up 'why women fall for jerks' on the internet, and this one guy fit the bill. Every single topic about a jerk was covered with this guy, from name calling to self-absorbed confidence to introducing sex early on and denying rejection. I mean this guy couldn't or didn't see why he was wrong in approaching friends or women. He had no humble or compassion and never apologized for anything, never showed fear of losing anything and only went about getting his way. Can these people be changed???? I know it takes some miracle sacrifice on their part to even want to change, but do you know anyone who was a Jerk and then came down to earth and became HUMAN??? Why do they exist? It may be a defining reason why relationships don't last.