I can be a fucking asshole and I know it, and people know it, and I try to stay within reasonable limits when I'm in a no-nonsense bad mood. Shit, a bad mood is just a bad mood. But I don't try to pretend to be something I'm not, and be a deceitful, and false creature. Some people will lie like hell and think up a whole bullshit story just to exploit other people's willingness to lend an ear and give them some fucking attention. There's nothing wrong with trying to get attention, every lonely soul needs attention. But under false pretenses, that is among the worst things in my book and I'm never a fan of it. But not worse than a person who really hates your ass amongst their little friends, and laughs with their friends when they're talking shit about you, and then another minute pretends to be oh so nice and peachy and smiley with you. I sure didn't like it in school (where it comes from and where it needs to stay), and still don't. You know, this little girl swore she was cussing me out a storm about how much I'm a bitch, get my head outta' my ass, etc. Then, the next minute pretending to give a damn about how I'm feeling. :laugh: Please. That fake behavior just makes me not want to talk to these people or take a damn thing they say seriously at all. If you don't take yourself and your problems seriously when you're supposedly seeking advice and help, then why should anyone else? If you're not gonna be real and open about it, stop wasting people's time and taking advantage of an extended arm.