Hi Everyone, I'm a 34 year old indian (south asian) guy living in LA. I am married to who I think is a decent woman. However, I have recently come to learn that she is one of the most pessimistc people I know. She brings me down every day. She makes me cry. She insults me. She always points to negative things. She yells at me. She is verbally abusive. She has almost no family values. Where I come from in India, family values are important. Case in point: my mom is visiting and staying with us. I like to treat my mom respectfully. My wife gets jealous, and she makes me feel like I love my mom more than her. She even tells me that. I go out of my way to make my wife happy, so it completely irritates me when she indicates otherwise. Last week, my mom and wife got into a heated argument. My mom asked about giving my 10 month old daughter some milk to stop her crying. My wife exploded and told my mom, "why do you keep insisting on giving her milk"? Her tone was very negative. My mom felt bad, started crying, and explained to my wife the reason why she came to visit was to take care of us, not to hurt us. To make a long story short, there is so much tension in the house, and I'm caught in the middle. I have many reasons for writing this post. Of course, I would like to hear from some of you and get some advice. Appreciate any feedback. Thanks.