Im having major trouble dealing with my family. I got so angry at my grandmother today i actually told her I wished I werent part of this family.. Does anyone else have trouble dealing with their family? My grandma and I talk almost daily. If I didnt love her so much Id probably never speak to her unless I 100% had to. Today my husband was out cutting wood with my stepdad. She goes 'Oh so your husbands helping cut wood today are they cutting for you guys too'...I told her yes otherwise he wouldnt help because of what he did to us last time. I explained to her that my husband cut a small load of wood at my moms farm (that they havent freaking moved onto yet!!!! but thats another issue). My stepdad promised to haul the wood to our house but wouldnt. So my husband goes to their farm to bring it home little at a time in the trunk of our car and its all gone. He confronts my moms husband about it - my mom comes in during the conversation - her asshole husband then denies that my husband even cut the wood. You know what my grandma said when I told her the story.. She goes 'Oh your husband is probably lieing about it..You know how lazy he is'.. I got mad..freaking mad... When he helps out around their place they tell him to sit down until they need him and then dont ask him to get up to help much..How the hell can be help if they dont give him a job to do...Of course hes sitting down if they say hes in the way and to sit down until they find something for him to do.... Also his back is in terrible shape and he has a good freaking excuse to take frequent breaks.... But he gets his damn work done.. I dont understand how she can tell me mean things about my husband..If I say something even slightly mean about him she jumps all over me... What is wrong with her? Does she not realize she doesnt know everything, dont know the whole damn story.. How can she be so nasty mouthed and close minded..Shes a total hypacrite (spelling sorry).... I get so mad at her I wish I could just punch her... Also shes always yelling at me if I leave the house...She complains about the amount of animals I have.. She critizes my parenting skills...Always tells people SHE takes care of my son (she does but all the damn time)..Shes always telling me how I should let her have him...What is wrong with her? Why is she so hurtful all the time? What did I do?