Does anyone else have a little life that they live in their head? Not just fantasies like most people have, but a whole other reality? Not delusions and not 'dreams' or wishes but maybe somewhere between the 2?
I do, I have developed it over a few years. When things are OK I don't rely on it so much but I know things are starting again when I retreat there more often. I know things are really bad when I want to constantly be on my own so that I can go back to my little world and all the pain of this one goes away. I will lie in bed for hours and totally avoid contact with other people to make sure I can do it. It even carries on day to day and things that I do in my life or events that happen also 'happen' in my fantasy world, just for different reasons and with different outcomes.
I'm not delusional - I know the difference between my fantasy self and life and the real one - all too well, I just choose to retreat into my 'other life'. But sometimes it does seem like the line may be blurring - I still know the difference but well, say I'm at work, instead of thinking about coming home to 3 days worth of washing up and a cold empty house, I will trip into my other life and think about the lovely warm house with my lovely husband and maybe a baby or 2 waiting for me. I never tell anyone about this world - this is the first time that I've admitted to it. The people in my life know how my life is and I don't ever substitute details from my fantasy life with my real life - it just wouldn't be possible to sustain it.
In my world I have a boyfriend/husband and this is because It's been sadly lacking in my real life - the person varies but they are never a 'real' person - usually a film, tv or book character.
I don't know maybe I AM as mad as I sound......... I'd love some feedback on this it's not something I've ever discussed before.
:itachi:
I do, I have developed it over a few years. When things are OK I don't rely on it so much but I know things are starting again when I retreat there more often. I know things are really bad when I want to constantly be on my own so that I can go back to my little world and all the pain of this one goes away. I will lie in bed for hours and totally avoid contact with other people to make sure I can do it. It even carries on day to day and things that I do in my life or events that happen also 'happen' in my fantasy world, just for different reasons and with different outcomes.
I'm not delusional - I know the difference between my fantasy self and life and the real one - all too well, I just choose to retreat into my 'other life'. But sometimes it does seem like the line may be blurring - I still know the difference but well, say I'm at work, instead of thinking about coming home to 3 days worth of washing up and a cold empty house, I will trip into my other life and think about the lovely warm house with my lovely husband and maybe a baby or 2 waiting for me. I never tell anyone about this world - this is the first time that I've admitted to it. The people in my life know how my life is and I don't ever substitute details from my fantasy life with my real life - it just wouldn't be possible to sustain it.
In my world I have a boyfriend/husband and this is because It's been sadly lacking in my real life - the person varies but they are never a 'real' person - usually a film, tv or book character.
I don't know maybe I AM as mad as I sound......... I'd love some feedback on this it's not something I've ever discussed before.
:itachi: